Thomas Jefferson Memorial Church--Unitarian Universalist

Darkness Visible

Part II

Rev. David Takahashi Morris

December 17, 2006

 

Welcoming the Returning Light

 

          We will not notice it for weeks yet, but starting at 7:20 PM Thursday, the days will begin getting longer, and the hours of darkness will diminish bit by bit.  So too in our lives the presence of light can pass unnoticed at first; we can fail to realize where we should look.  Yet in this year, as in every year, our shadows are balanced by light if we seek closely enough.  So in the return of light to the candles of our year, let us recognize those sources of light which sustain and encourage us through the winters of our hearts.

 

Our disappointments are balanced by moments of celebration, when we welcome new people, new visions, new possibilities in our lives. 

 

Our loneliness is eased as we recognize the presence of love in our lives.  Perhaps not in the shape or the form we had expected, perhaps not in the way our culture has taught us to look for—yet love is all around us, if we open our hearts to its currents. 

 

We have seen acts of loyalty great and small to hold over against life’s betrayals:  The unconditional welcome of an animal companion; the trusting grin or embrace of a child, the determined friend who would not let us slip quietly away into isolation. 

 

In the midst of our sense of shame there have been quiet voices offering us acceptance:  friends and family who love us even knowing everything there is to know about us; a faith community that tells us we are all beloved children of the Holy. 

 

The bitter hours of loss are followed by the slow rhythms of healing.  Broken hearts learn to love again; our shattered lives slowly mend themselves and we open ourselves to the possibility of new love and new hope. 

 

Deep within our beings the yearning for joy sings in the midst of our sorrows.  In our saddest times we are visited by moments of laughter or of quiet smiling recollection, when we know that joy will not desert us even in the darkest hours. 

 

Just as we contribute to the advance of darkness in the world, so we can be part of the light’s return.  The slings and arrows life casts our way are met by our chosen response.  This power to choose our response is our greatest gift in engaging our life with the life of the world. 

So now as the light continues its advance through our candles for the months of the year, let us remember that we have the power to be that light which we would see advance in the world. 

 

Generosity is our answer to greed: Recognition that we live in a world of abundance, not scarcity, and making ourselves part of that abundance. 

 

We challenge arrogance with humility:  the recognition that no single glimpse of truth is the final word.  We know that no child of the Universe is more worthy than the others of a place of love, nurture, and care in the world. 

 

Anger separates us from those we love, from those we would guide or help, from those we wish to persuade.  Nurture is the answer to anger:  Nurturing and gentling our own fear and our misguided need to control others; nurturing and healing those whom we must seek to understand if we would embody our belief in human kinship. 

 

Courage is the answer to fear.  Courage is not fearlessness, it is the willingness to proceed faithfully in spite of our fears.  It is the willingness to risk everything for the sake of our highest values. 

 

Hatred is dismantled by compassion.  Compassion recognizes our shared humanity with those with whom we disagree.  In the place of hatred compassion seeks to build relationship and respect

 

Despair is answered by hope.  Hope is not an emotion we feel, and it does not depend on miraculous changes in events or in human beings. Hope is the constantly renewed choice to commit ourselves to the possibility of the best within us and in others. 

 

          And so the year comes full circle, and the season of darkness is succeeded by the season of light.  Here on the cusp when the shadows and the hours of darkness are longest, let us never forget the solstice wisdom:  Darkness there must be, yet darkness is never the only truth.  In the stillness of winter, in the stillness of our hearts, let us hear the quiet voice that heralds the returning light.  Let us be that voice.  Let us become the light of the world.