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The Importance of Being Quiet

April 6, 2003

 

 And here's your homework for our next Covenant Group meeting:

During the coming week, create a space to rest, daydream, wander, ponder or remember.  Try to make it a significant amount of time. This is not traditional meditation and it is not activities like reading, exercising. gardening or other hobbies. It is quiet time spent focused on yourself, on looking inward, time that isn't useful, productive, required, educational, healthy, entertaining, creative or distracting. 

Here are some ideas: 

 

We will describe our experiences and our reactions to it in the first part of CG. I am hoping that a little mindful quiet time may be just what we need

 

 

 

The Importance of Being Quiet

April 6, 2003

 

 

Opening Words-

 

     Welcome to a new way to cope with the demands of life.

     Welcome to a way that requires no difficult skills,

       adds no new burdens, and accommodates all spiritual

       systems and lifestyles.

     Welcome to those who want to do nothing—more often,  

       more creatively, with joy and without guilt.

     Welcome to simplicity.

     Welcome to serenity—tranquility, calmness, and 

       clarity—every day.

 

Check-In- Take a minute or two to briefly share either the high point or the low point of your life since we last met.

 

Chalice Lighting-

       Meditation # 481 in Singing the Living Tradition

It is our quiet time.

We do not speak, because the voices are within us.

It is our quiet time.

We do not walk, because the earth is all within us.

It is our quiet time.

We do not dance, because the music has lifted us to a place where the spirit is.

It is our quiet time.

We rest with all of nature. We wake when the seven sisters wake.

We greet them in the sky over the opening of the kiva.

 

Questions:

Describe your experience of “doing nothing” and your reaction to it.

What did you learn about yourself from this experience?

Is there quiet time in your daily/weekly schedule? Why or why not?

What effect would it have on your life if you did this more often? less often?

What spiritual practices do you or could you do to bring quiet space into your day/week?

 

 

Check-out

Let us hold the silence for a little while and then each person add a single word to the quiet.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Closing Words

     adapted from Doing Nothing by Steven Harrison

 

Being is what remains when we stop trying so hard.

 

In the stopping we discover the vast spaciousness of life, of love, of connection.

 

And out of this vast love, out of this ground of being, arises the very movement of life—our life.

 

The life that can be such a challenge and burden is also the life that is the expression of the infinite.

 

From the perspective of life itself, doing and being are one.

 

We cannot live without acting and we cannot live happily without love.

 

This dance of the absolute and the relative, the whole and the aspect, is the life in which we find ourselves.

 

Our exploration is not the avoidance of activity or the denial of love, but the discovery of stillness in movement, wholeness in form, and the fullness of emptiness.

 

 

Extinguishing the Chalice:

Let us open our minds and hearts to the place of quiet, to the peace that is within us and around us and to the soft, gentle coming of love.

 

Go in peace.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Rules Review

-         Respect the Talking Stick-one person speaking at a time, no interruptions, comments, questions etc. during check-in and first round of sharing on topic

-         Make I statements whenever possible

-         Use Active Listening

-         Respect confidentiality of shared information 

-         Avoid giving advice

o       May ask clarifying questions during second round

o       Speaker may ask for advice which will be shared later

-         Share time so everyone who wishes to may speak

-         Anyone may pass at any time

-         Encourage holding silences

 

 

Next Meeting: Easter Sunday, April 20, 2003

 Location of next meeting: 

 Leader: Deborah

 

 Dinner Menu

Sally

Lynn

Nancy

Deborah & Mark

Staci

Glenn

Shirley

  

 

Concerns?