Dealing with Death
Rules Review
Group Business
Check-in
Opening Words-
At Six and Seven
They sqatted on their hells, these children six and seven,
studying a dead bird baby, fallen half-fledged
from its next high-hidden in the sturdy pine.
Long they sat there, fascinated as the ants purseued
their wonted task, re-cycling the forlorn body
of the baby bird who too soon ventured from the nest.
Long they squatted there, absorbing Nature’s lesson grim and sad.
Then one took a leaf and brushed the ants away. The other
did the same; thought had given way to action.
Was it some wish that magic might undo the tragedy that
Nature’s hand had wrought? Or was it reverence
for what had been, and for what might have been, if only…
Sympathy, no doubt; perhaps a sense of awe; some inkling
of what fate holds in store for all of us. It is thus we learn,
at six or seven, about the mystery of death.
Questions:
What was you first experience with death?
How did you or would you deal with the death of someone important to you?
Can you talk comfortably about death (yours or theirs) with those you love? What do you say?
Check-out
For about half the time we took at check-in, each of us can make a brief statement about how we feel about the meeting.
Closing Words
To One in Sorrow
Let me come in where you are weeping, friend,
And let me take your hand.
I, who have known sorrow such as yours,
Can understand.
Let me come in—I would be very still
Beside you in your grief;
I would not bid you cease your weeping, friend,
Tears bring relief.
Let me come in—I would only breathe a prayer,
And hold your hand,
For I have known a sorrow such as yours,
And understand.
Grace Noll Crowell